Recently, I was listening to an old Tamil song which was
about uttering the truth. Literally it said something like “telling the truth
shows the high moral character” of a person. It set me thinking about the lies
that we often utter in our day to day lives. I even wondered whether it is
possible to speak the truth always or even most of the times?
Lie is referred to in many ways – casual bluff, blatant lie,
white lie, lying between the teeth etc., but whatever way, lie is a lie, I
suppose.
The amusing fact is none of us even take it seriously, in Hindi,
for example we just call it “pekh raha hain”, casually. If we think about it
historically, in our country, there should have been lesser liars in earlier days,
even in the beginning of the 20th century, since, we always believe
in dharma and the dharmic way of life. Satya (Kritha) yug, Thetha yug, Dwapara
yug should have had many truthful people. If we look at the ancient scripts of
India, it says the proportion of dharma is slowly coming down from 100% in
Satya (Kritha) Yug to 25% in Kali yug (in step down instalments of 25%). One of
the strong reasons for degeneration of truth may be due to this scale down (may
be liars also increased in the same proportion between the yugs)
Gandhiji was a great advocate of truth (of course, my
experiments with truth did not exactly or literally mean this truth but the
higher truth (God)). He would have definitely admonished many of us in the
present generation for the liberal doses of untruth in our lives. Many of us must
have read the story of Raja Harishchandra and the difficulties he had to
undergo because he did not want to utter a lie, and so chose otherwise.
My father used to say that to lie one should be intelligent,
since you have to keep track of what lie you told whom, whereas to tell the
truth, you don’t need much intelligence since truth will be the same, always.
Probably, the most important point would be can we live
without telling lies? There are so many practical occasions where we have to
tell one, when at school, college, office,
with neighbours.....in order to avoid someone, saving ourselves from
embarrassment, to get what we want etc. Maybe, the most worrying factor is that
we do it without even a sense of guilt (often it is the other way round). Nowadays,
even in homes the virtue is not being emphasised and children also lie to their
parents (I have always hesitated a lot, as a child). Is it because we have
started terming the so called truthful people as non pragmatists or impractical
people?